Red Flags vs. Green Flags: What to Look For in Online Dating

Learning to Read the Signs

Online dating gives you a unique advantage: you can evaluate someone before you ever meet them.

Green Flags

• Specific interests and hobbies — They know who they are
• Thoughtful prompt answers — They put effort into their profile
• Asks questions about you — Genuine curiosity
• Remembers details you mentioned — They're paying attention
• Respects your pace — Doesn't pressure you
• Makes concrete plans — "Want to grab coffee Saturday at 2?"

Red Flags

• No bio or minimal effort — They're not serious
• Love bombing — Excessive compliments after 2 messages
• Refuses to video chat — Before meeting, a quick call confirms identity
• Asks for money — This is always a scam
• Gets angry when you set boundaries — A major warning sign
• Talks negatively about all their exes — The common denominator is them

Trust Your Instincts

The most important dating advice is also the simplest: if something feels off, it probably is. You don't owe anyone a second date, a response, or an explanation.